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PERFECT-MOTHER DETOX

What if the problem isn't you? What if it's the impossible standards you're measuring yourself against?

In this frank, unfiltered, and potentially life-changing hour together, I'll show you:

  • Why perfectionism in motherhood is particularly toxic (and how it's different from perfectionism in other areas of your life)

  • Where these impossible standards actually came from (hint: it wasn't your choice)

  • How your high-achieving personality has set you up for this struggle (the very qualities that brought you success elsewhere are working against you now)

  • The exact method I've used to help hundreds of women break free from the perfect mother myth

  • A simple daily practice that will immediately reduce your maternal guilt and anxiety

This webinar is specifically for you if:

  • You find yourself thinking "I should be better at this" multiple times a day

  • You're constantly researching the "right" way to handle every parenting situation

  • You feel judged by other mothers (or worse, you judge yourself through their eyes)

  • You've mastered the art of looking like you've got it all under control while falling apart inside

  • You're tired of feeling like you're failing at the one thing that matters most to you

You'll leave this session with:

  • A clear understanding of why you've been struggling (and why it's not your fault)

  • Freedom from at least one perfectionist standard that's been weighing you down

  • A practical tool you can use immediately when perfectionism creeps in

  • A roadmap for transforming your experience of motherhood without having to become a different kind of mother

  • A renewed sense of confidence in your natural maternal instincts

About Me

I'm Becky Selby, founder of (M)otherway and creator of the RECALIBRATE™ programme.

I work with brilliant, capable women who are used to excelling at everything they do—until motherhood knocked them sideways.

My approach combines my professional training as a maternal mental health specialist with my very personal experience as a mother who once found herself sobbing on the kitchen floor because I couldn't live up to my own impossible standards.

I won't sugarcoat motherhood. It's messy, challenging, and sometimes heartbreaking. But I also know with absolute certainty that it doesn't have to feel like constant failure.

There is a way to mother that honours both your children AND yourself. And it starts with detoxing from the perfect mother myth.